After reading title of blog, question might have come to your crazy mind that to whom, for what etc... you say NO.
I have been experiencing that people(I am also included) hesitate to say NO to dearest and nearest one for some thing that they does not like to do. They always give some pretext so that other people get to know that he or she is not agree with him or her.
Like last Sunday we two friends decided to go to water park and because we always go together all roommates for any trip or outside, we kept this proposal against one of my room mate and he does not want to come, so he did not said NO to us instead he give 2-3 pretext and we got it!!!
Another experience is: we stay 4 friends together and we have a cook. So who come early from office brings vegetables for "Subji". So it happens that out of 4 person, few does not like few "Subji" and one brings that "Subji". When other(who does not like that subji) calls and ask for what is the Subji today and when he comes to know BAD subji is there in dinner, he says that today I am not less hungry instead of saying "Aaje subji gamtu nathi etle ochu khavase"..
I think one should also learn to say NO to what he does not like...
4 comments:
First of all, nice to read something on your blog.
In my view, emotional beings ONLY will hesitate to tell no to their nearest and dearest ones. But yes, sometime we do need to tell no.
Nice reading buddy .. Do share more of your experiences ...
Agree.. Thanks for the comment. I will share more...
you are right, but from my point of view there is always something going on in others mind also.... directly says to NO to anybody.....which is not advisable....
I will give you the reason that when anyone can say NO to anybody, but first of all he thinks about the nature which the other people have. Based on the previous experience generally all the people shy to say NO.
This is all from my side....
And i would like say something on your blog is....
JIO BAPU JIO....!!!!
keep it up...
Nice one...!!!
Expect more inputs from your side...!!
Hey DG,
Thanks for reading blog and sharing your views.
In case when some one ask you to so something which you do not like to do(becuase of whatever the matter), and if you do that, then there will not be joy and you would not enjoy it and feel good about it. It does not give you inner happiness.
Some cases are always exceptional.
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